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Lead By Example: Be the Role Model Your Kids Need

Writer: Mara GeorgescuMara Georgescu

As parents, we pour our hearts into our kids. We show up to every game, every recital, every school event. We cheer the loudest, support them unconditionally, and do everything we can to help them succeed. But here’s a question worth asking: Are they looking up to us? Or are we only looking at them?

Too often, modern parenting revolves entirely around our children’s lives, while our own ambitions, challenges, and passions take a backseat. But the truth is, kids don’t just learn from what we say. They learn from what we do. If we want to raise strong, resilient, and independent kids, we need to lead by example.

Are We Showing Them How to Chase Dreams?

We push our kids to dream big, to take risks, and to work hard. But do they ever see us doing the same?

Think about it: when was the last time your child saw you step outside of your comfort zone? Do they see you working toward a personal goal? Are they watching you handle challenges with resilience and grit?

Kids respect what they witness. If they grow up seeing their parents pursuing goals, facing adversity, and continuing to grow, they will internalize that same drive. But if all they see is a parent whose entire world revolves around them, they may never learn the importance of self-motivation, discipline, or perseverance.

The Problem With Helicopter Parenting

We’ve all heard the term “helicopter parenting,” where parents over-invest in every aspect of their child’s life. While being present and engaged is crucial, over-involvement can backfire. When kids grow up feeling like the center of the universe, they may struggle to develop:

Independence: If they never see their parents pursuing their own paths, they may assume adulthood is just about serving others, not self-growth.

Respect for Others’ Time & Effort: If a child is always the priority, they may not learn to support others in return.

The Value of Hard Work: If parents don’t model ambition and perseverance, kids may struggle to understand what it takes to achieve success.

We take them to every game. But do they come to ours? We celebrate their victories. But do they see us striving for our own?

How to Lead by Example

So, how do we shift from just supporting our kids to also inspiring them? Here are a few ways to start:

💡 Pursue Your Own Goals: Whether it’s fitness, education, career, or a passion project, let them see you work for something.

💡 Show Resilience in Challenges: Let them watch you face obstacles and keep going. Teach them how to handle setbacks.

💡 Invite Them Into Your World: Just like you support their activities, let them see yours, whether it’s a sport, a hobby, or professional growth.

💡 Demonstrate Lifelong Learning: Read, take a class, start a project, show them that growth doesn’t stop after childhood.

Final Thoughts

Your kids don’t just need a fan. They need a role model. They need to see what strength, passion, and perseverance look like in action. Be the person they admire, not just the person who admires them.

Because in the end, your legacy won’t be what you told them it will be what they saw in you. 🚀

 
 
 

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